Letter To A New Sex Worker

Letter To A New Sex Worker

Wait for the knock. Glance in the mirror a final time and check your hair and lipstick. Are you polished, darling? It’s show time! Take a deep breath, open the door and purr out your sexiest hello. Big smile. Be dressed appropriately; stilettos to the sex worker are...

Taking Your Body Back from Big Pharma

Taking Your Body Back from Big Pharma

Doctors are quick to push the pill as a panacea for everything from heavy periods to acne, and women disconnected from their bodies (and out of tune with nature) are quick to comply. But is there another way? Yes. It may take a little bit of time and research but I...

Why You Want Off Hormonal Birth Control

Why You Want Off Hormonal Birth Control

The ubiquitous pill may seem innocuous, but is it really? With roughly 10 million women on birth control, shouldn’t we dig a little deeper? Sure, we all want the magic bullet. But life doesn’t work like that, princess; there’s no fairy dust, there’s no magic wand....

Navigating Jealousy

Navigating Jealousy

Do you get crazy with jealousy? Are you embarrassed to admit your behaviors? Is your significant other constantly checking up on you and putting you through a weekly interrogation? Take a breath. We all have our demons to slay. Jealousy is a primitive and common...

Five Reasons Infant Circumcision Should Be Outlawed

Five Reasons Infant Circumcision Should Be Outlawed

It’s rape and sexual abuse. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines rape as follows: An unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or...

Orgasms that Defy Definition

Orgasms that Defy Definition

The first time I had a non-clitoral orgasm and experienced orgasm as an energetic portal it blew my mind; sex would never be the same. My boyfriend and I had rented a cabin in the forest for a love-making weekend. Away from the demands of motherhood and work, I...

The Primal Temptress

The Primal Temptress

Our brain is built in layers, with the more complex mammalian layer on top of the simpler reptilian. All vertebrates have a reptilian brain. It is the most primitive part of the mind, governing our most basic instincts like self-preservation and reproduction. We...

5 things I love about Tantra.

5 things I love about Tantra.

Tantra is a lifestyle and spiritual path that celebrates and cultivates our creative, life-force energy, a.k.a. our sexual energy! The origins of Tantra are obscure but it’s undeniably the oldest known art of sacred sexuality practiced today. The word Tantra is...

Lessons From My Clients

Lessons From My Clients

Set your life on fire and seek those who will fan your flames.—Rumi In my first ever dominatrix session, which I detail in my book Fetish Girl, I learned valuable lessons on how to gracefully guide another into their fantasies. I didn’t come to these lessons...

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