Bella

LaVey

It is your birthright to be aligned with your super powers, and your wild open heart. It is my purpose and my path to guide you in this transformation.

Are You Living Fully and Freely?

No matter where you are in your journey or how bumpy the path has been, I can help guide you toward the authentic life you were born to live.

I’m a Certified Human Potential Coach, called into a position of service for those who are seeking their highest purpose. With years of experience as a Holistic Sex Coach, I have a special affinity for those traveling the path of relationship and intimacy.

Let’s take this journey together.

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How I Help:

Coaching

Whether you need a single session or regular consults, we’ll work together to craft the ultimate game plan.

Workshops

I love bringing the community together! Join me for a custom workshop or transformative event in the South Austin area.

Memoir

None of us should hide in the dark. There’s nothing more powerful than bringing one’s darkness into the light.

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Love & Praise

(What folks are saying about me.)

My desire to recreate myself and branch out into uncharted territory led me to work with Bella. With her help, I’ve seen exponential growth as I reach for my highest potential. Her passion and drive have enabled me to excel in every area of my life; her intuition and support inspire me to reach higher to achieve my goals. She leads by example, drawing from her own experiences and expertise. With Bella as my muse and coach, I am no longer so afraid of the unknown.

Heidi C. Ellis

New Articles:

5 Things I wished someone told me before I got married

Deciding to share your life with another is a beautiful thing. Doing so wisely and consciously could save you a ton of heartache in the future.  Here’s a few things I wish someone had told me.  1. To everything, there is a season.  A doctor once told me, "Enjoy it...

Be her oral sex god (or goddess): Part I

Without further ado, it’s time to talk Pussy Worship. ⁠Some women feel absolutely ambivalent about oral sex, “It’s not my favorite but I know he likes doing it” Do you feel similar? ⁠Pussy Worship is different. And I’m going to show you how. So that you can give her...

Coming Out Kinky: Advice from Your Friendly International Ex-Dominatrix:

I know there are a lot of tips out there to improve your sex life, but this time, I’m offering a rare perspective based on my experience as an internationally-sought after Dominatrix. But let me be clear, spicing up your sex life requires trust and intimacy, a true...

Qi 101: Expand your understanding of life force energy

Ever sensed you were being watched and turned to find someone staring at you? Ever walked into a room that felt dense and heavy only to notice a couple in an obvious argument in the corner? Clairsentience is what they call it; the ability to feel energy. And whether...

Dye no more: Why I embrace my gorgeously gray hair

Have you sprouted a few gray hairs since being on lock-down? Read why I stopped dyeing my hair in 2019. As a young woman, I balked at most traditional femininity rituals. I wasn't one to mimic the habits of my mother. But I dutifully followed one tradition passed down...

Tibetan Meditation For Relief From Suffering

To sit with suffering may be against our natural impulse. When witnessing the pain of others, we often shift our eyes away. Because it reminds us of our own fear. Our own anger. Vulnerability. Confusion. Tonglen, a traditional Buddhist practice helps us respond with...

BELLA’S GUIDE TO LUXURY BREAST MASSAGE

Hello beautiful!  I'm publishing this post as an offering to women experiencing stress related to COVID-19.  We all know anxiety takes a tremendous toll on the system. Strengthening your constitution is the best defense against viruses. This practice is designed to...

The Secrets to Loving your Man (and the Love Potion No One Talks About).

One of my relationship mantras is, “How can I love you better?” It’s something I ask myself and my partner. Long-term relationships are a dance; they require us to do our personal work and endure the hurricanes and tornadoes that we’d most likely detour in dating. In...

Sex Work, Living in Two Worlds

For most of my adult life I’ve lived a double life and straddled two worlds. In fact, I lived like this for so long I didn’t realize I was doing it anymore. It became my norm. As a young mother I felt like I had no choice. There are no coming out stories for sex...

Rising from the Crucible of Infidelity

Infidelity had throttled Patricia and Devon’s world. Devon stared at me with desperate wide eyes. Patricia sat as rigid as the Sphinx, a jagged wall of pain and betrayal separating them. I flashed back 20 years, to when I sat crumpled on a therapist’s couch in much of...

Working with a coach is engaging in an alchemical process of creation. Together we unwind shame and limiting beliefs, and weave in the stories and desires that empower you to live a life of greatness.

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