“Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself.“

—Anaïs Nin

Let’s Talk Sex with Bella LaVey:

A personalized one-on-one mini-session to discuss any question, obstacle or issue you’re having with sex.

Are you carrying your trauma and shame into the bedroom?

Are you navigating sexuality and your aging body?

Are you lacking confidence due to sexual inexperience?

Whatever your issues, curiosities, or desires, they are all perfectly natural.  And I’m here to help you navigate the wild waters of intimacy. 

Let’s Talk Sex. 

Traditional sex education and religion does its best to make people feel ashamed, afraid, immoral, pathological and perverted regarding their authentic sexuality.⁠

But au contraire: Sex is something to be honored, celebrated, discussed.

This offering serves as a container of trust, safety and acceptance. 

It exists as a sacred meeting place.

Clients meet me to discuss erections, orgasms, squirting, shame, trauma, power play, kink culture, sexuality, aging, and much, much more.

They leave with clear understanding, fresh perspective, and new techniques to bring to the bedroom. 

Sessions Include… 

We will begin with a short introdution and intuitive consultation. I’ll listen without judgement.

Together, we will work towards the solution that best serves you.

Simply find a time that works for you via my Online Scheduler.

My name is Bella LaVey and for many years I lived as an internationally-sought after Dominatrix. ⁠Then, a deep exploration of Tantra and sacred sexuality propelled me into the position of Holistic Sex Coach.⁠

My Let’s Talk Sex offering merges poignant understanding of sexuality with my devoted study of healing modalities. 

If this resonates…if you are feeling stagnant in your sexual evolution, confused, curious, or frustrated…Let’s Talk.⁠

Investment: 45 Minutes for $100

Ready to Talk Sex with Bella LaVey?

Bless YOU Bella and your brilliant work of making people feel sexy and confident in their own skin.


I was skeptical at first when Bella encouraged me to consider taking natural supplements and doing daily exercises to strengthen my libido. However, I became a believer after a few months when my wife gave me unsolicited feedback about the positive changes she had noticed. Thank you, Bella, for encouraging me in those disciplines.


Working with a coach is engaging in an alchemical process of creation. Together we unwind shame and limiting beliefs, and weave in the stories and desires that empower you to live a life of greatness.

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