by Bella LaVey | Apr 6, 2020 | Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Health, Transitions
Have you sprouted a few gray hairs since being on lock-down? Read why I stopped dyeing my hair in 2019. As a young woman, I balked at most traditional femininity rituals. I wasn’t one to mimic the habits of my mother. But I dutifully followed one tradition...
by Bella LaVey | Sep 6, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Relationships, Self Care, Sexuality
The first time I had a non-clitoral orgasm and experienced orgasm as an energetic portal it blew my mind; sex would never be the same. My boyfriend and I had rented a cabin in the forest for a love-making weekend. Away from the demands of motherhood and work, I...
by Bella LaVey | Aug 16, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Sexuality
Tantra is a lifestyle and spiritual path that celebrates and cultivates our creative, life-force energy, a.k.a. our sexual energy! The origins of Tantra are obscure but it’s undeniably the oldest known art of sacred sexuality practiced today. The word Tantra is...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 23, 2019 | Attraction, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Intimacy, Masculine, Sexuality
Set your life on fire and seek those who will fan your flames. —Rumi In my first ever dominatrix session, which I detail in my book Fetish Girl, I learned valuable lessons on how to gracefully guide another into their fantasies. I didn’t come to these lessons...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 16, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Health, Intimacy, Self Care, Transitions
Something I’ve noticed is that when I forget my feminine practices, I am more easily pulled off my center. It’s essential to stay embodied and heart-connected to yourself—especially during times of stress and transition. Embrace it; breathe, and surrender to what is....
by Bella LaVey | Feb 13, 2019 | Biohacking, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Transitions
Is it simply menopause, I ponder? Nah… what’s happening inside me isn’t something to be mitigated or diagnosed. It’s meant to be embraced. My instincts tell me to surrender and submerge myself in the experience, so I’ve swung open the door and...
