ASK BELLA: Marijuanagasms (Marijuana Orgasms)

ASK BELLA: Marijuanagasms (Marijuana Orgasms)

Q: #DearBella, I’ve been in a relationship for 2.5 years with a man I’m very much in love with. We have a fantastic sex life that includes both a physical and emotional connection. The only problem? My orgasms (let’s call them marijuana orgasms)...
ASK BELLA: 8 Ways To Transform Through A Breakup

ASK BELLA: 8 Ways To Transform Through A Breakup

Q: #DearBella, My boyfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me a month ago and he’s already found a new love. I’m struggling to let him go. I can’t seem to get over him. Please help — Melancholy Margaret.  A: #Dearest MM, Break ups are tough. Humans are...
ASK BELLA: Help, My Husband Lost His Virility!

ASK BELLA: Help, My Husband Lost His Virility!

Q: #DearBella, I have been married to the same man now for ten years. Long story short, sex has become nonexistent over the last three years due to impotency. I am 53 and he is 63. He tried low T therapy, hated it and refused to continue.  Now the ugly reality is a...
ASK BELLA: Are We Lovers Or Roommates?

ASK BELLA: Are We Lovers Or Roommates?

Q: Dear Bella, My partner and I are feeling more like roommates than lovers. It sucks! What should I do?⁠ A: Dearest, It’s time to boot out the roommate and welcome back your lover. BUT FIRST: Get some fresh air.⁠  Taking time for yourself, your friends, and your...
ASK BELLA: When Racism Climbs Into Your Bed⁠

ASK BELLA: When Racism Climbs Into Your Bed⁠

Q: Dear Bella, My partner is holding onto outdated beliefs about race. Do you have any tips on having conversations that don’t erupt into argument? A: Dearest, thank you for asking. What’s happening in your relationship is a microcosm of the larger whole. Same...