ASK BELLA: Are We Lovers Or Roommates?

ASK BELLA: Are We Lovers Or Roommates?

Q: Dear Bella, My partner and I are feeling more like roommates than lovers. It sucks! What should I do?⁠ A: Dearest, It’s time to boot out the roommate and welcome back your lover. BUT FIRST: Get some fresh air.⁠  Taking time for yourself, your friends, and your...
ASK BELLA: When Racism Climbs Into Your Bed⁠

ASK BELLA: When Racism Climbs Into Your Bed⁠

Q: Dear Bella, My partner is holding onto outdated beliefs about race. Do you have any tips on having conversations that don’t erupt into argument? A: Dearest, thank you for asking. What’s happening in your relationship is a microcosm of the larger whole. Same...