by Bella LaVey | Mar 17, 2020 | Blog, Self Care
To sit with suffering may be against our natural impulse. When witnessing the pain of others, we often shift our eyes away. Because it reminds us of our own fear. Our own anger. Vulnerability. Confusion. Tonglen, a traditional Buddhist practice helps us respond with...
by Bella LaVey | Mar 13, 2020 | Advice, Blog, Feminine, Health, Self Care
Hello beautiful! I’m publishing this post as an offering to women experiencing stress related to COVID-19. We all know anxiety takes a tremendous toll on the system. Strengthening your constitution is the best defense against viruses. This practice is designed...
by Bella LaVey | Feb 23, 2020 | Blog, devotion, Feminine, Interviews, Masculine, Relationships, Self Care
One of my relationship mantras is, “How can I love you better?” It’s something I ask myself and my partner. Long-term relationships are a dance; they require us to do our personal work and endure the hurricanes and tornadoes that we’d most likely detour in dating. In...
by Bella LaVey | Sep 30, 2019 | Blog, Feminine, Health, Self Care
Doctors are quick to push the pill as a panacea for everything from heavy periods to acne, and women disconnected from their bodies (and out of tune with nature) are quick to comply. But is there another way? Yes. It may take a little bit of time and research but I...
by Bella LaVey | Sep 30, 2019 | Blog, Feminine, Health, Self Care
The ubiquitous pill may seem innocuous, but is it really? With roughly 10 million women on birth control, shouldn’t we dig a little deeper? Sure, we all want the magic bullet. But life doesn’t work like that, princess; there’s no fairy dust, there’s no magic wand....
by Bella LaVey | Sep 6, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Relationships, Self Care, Sexuality
The first time I had a non-clitoral orgasm and experienced orgasm as an energetic portal it blew my mind; sex would never be the same. My boyfriend and I had rented a cabin in the forest for a love-making weekend. Away from the demands of motherhood and work, I...
