A Goddess Guide to Self Care
Something I’ve noticed is that when I forget my feminine practices, I am more easily pulled off my center. It’s essential to stay embodied and heart-connected to yourself—especially during times of stress and transition. Embrace it; breathe, and surrender to what is....
A Guide for the Sexually Curious Young Woman
Times are changing. We are evolving. We don’t have to bumble our way through the first 10 or 20 years of relationship and wait until we are divorced and in a therapist’s office before we start to figure this shit out. It’s the 21st Century and there are new models for...
Cock Worship or Blowjob…What’s the Difference?
A blowjob is something you do for him — cock worship is something you do for YOU…and him, of course. Yes, it’s a gift and an offering but you do it because you love it and you need it. You do it because there's nothing you want more than to be showered in his...
Embracing Transitions
Is it simply menopause, I ponder? Nah... what’s happening inside me isn't something to be mitigated or diagnosed. It's meant to be embraced. My instincts tell me to surrender and submerge myself in the experience, so I’ve swung open the door and welcomed this unusual...
Letting Go of the Legacy of Shame
I am a mother and grandmother, and in a few short hours, I will have a memoir hit the streets that details my journey through the worlds of stripping, sex work, and erotic wrestling. So very soon, those personal moments I have carried with me will become...
The Best Sex of Your Life: The Power of Playing with Sexual Polarity, Part II
Heightened sexual polarity requires us to move to opposite ends of the masculine-feminine continuum and explore the axis of light and dark energies that intersect it. Want to dial up the electricity of sexual polarity to sizzling? Here are some ways! Make your partner...
The Best Sex of Your Life: The Power of Playing with Sexual Polarity, Part I
I’ll bet you’re reading this because you’re ready to take your sex life to the next level; you’re hungry for mind-blowing, knock-your-socks-off and show-me-the-stars sex. You’re ready to embrace your sexiest self, and you’re ready for your partner to do the same. One...
Tips for Mindful Sex with Rumi
Rumi would make a great sex coach. Really! He's a star in the modern holistic community and rightly so. Mystic and Sufi poet of Persian literature, Rumi describes love as a flame which, when it blazes up, burns away everything except the Everlasting Beloved. ...
Can I Get A Hug?
Yesterday after a twenty minute pout, complete with exaggerated sighs and long faces, my boyfriend finally asked, "is something wrong?" Now, I, teacher of sacred touch, had to draw from every workshop I've ever attended to muster the courage to squeak out the words,...
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