A Guide for the Sexually Curious Young Woman

A Guide for the Sexually Curious Young Woman

Times are changing. We are evolving. We don’t have to bumble our way through the first 10 or 20 years of relationship and wait until we are divorced and in a therapist’s office before we start to figure this shit out. It’s the 21st Century and there are new models for...
Cloaked

Cloaked

Open the door to my chamber I am cloaked and forbidden   Are you mesmerized by my beauty or your fear? Have I stepped off the computer screen or did you get sucked in? The trepidation makes me extra-terrestrial and so sexy. Come in. enter the portal into my...

Pondering

  I long for the long road that fades into the horizon, a road that ripples under raw heat and forces you to move on. I long for the smell of hot sage and solitude. I need a day where I don’t have to talk to anyone—a day with me. I’m always anxious. I long...

Sacred Slut: Sexting, Facebook & Teens

Dear Sacred, My 14-year-old niece is posting provocative pictures of herself on Facebook. She claims to be pretty chaste with boyfriends, not doing much beyond kissing. She’s been caught sexting and had consequences from her parents, school, and the boy that she...
Can I Get A Hug?

Can I Get A Hug?

Yesterday after a twenty minute pout, complete with exaggerated sighs and long faces, my boyfriend finally asked, “is something wrong?” Now, I, teacher of sacred touch, had to draw from every workshop I’ve ever attended to muster the courage to...