by Bella LaVey | Dec 5, 2019 | Blog
Wait for the knock. Glance in the mirror a final time and check your hair and lipstick. Are you polished, darling? It’s show time! Take a deep breath, open the door and purr out your sexiest hello. Big smile. Be dressed appropriately; stilettos to the sex worker are...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 31, 2019 | Biohacking, Blog, Health, Intimacy, Performance, Relationships, Sexuality
If you thought sex was simply an adjunct to a good life, like the olive in the martini, think again. Sex is one of the five pillars to living in prime health and being on top of your game. It’s at the very center, right next to your physical, mental, emotional, and...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 23, 2019 | Attraction, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Intimacy, Masculine, Sexuality
Set your life on fire and seek those who will fan your flames. —Rumi In my first ever dominatrix session, which I detail in my book Fetish Girl, I learned valuable lessons on how to gracefully guide another into their fantasies. I didn’t come to these lessons...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 16, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Health, Intimacy, Self Care, Transitions
Something I’ve noticed is that when I forget my feminine practices, I am more easily pulled off my center. It’s essential to stay embodied and heart-connected to yourself—especially during times of stress and transition. Embrace it; breathe, and surrender to what is....
by Bella LaVey | Jul 3, 2019 | Blog
Times are changing. We are evolving. We don’t have to bumble our way through the first 10 or 20 years of relationship and wait until we are divorced and in a therapist’s office before we start to figure this shit out. It’s the 21st Century and there are new models for...