by Bella LaVey | Aug 13, 2020 | Ask Bella
Q: #DearBella, I have been married to the same man now for ten years. Long story short, sex has become nonexistent over the last three years due to impotency. I am 53 and he is 63. He tried low T therapy, hated it and refused to continue. Now the ugly reality is a...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 10, 2020 | Ask Bella
Q: Dear Bella, My partner and I are feeling more like roommates than lovers. It sucks! What should I do? A: Dearest, It’s time to boot out the roommate and welcome back your lover. BUT FIRST: Get some fresh air. Taking time for yourself, your friends, and your...
by Bella LaVey | Jun 25, 2020 | Ask Bella
Q: Dear Bella, My partner is holding onto outdated beliefs about race. Do you have any tips on having conversations that don’t erupt into argument? A: Dearest, thank you for asking. What’s happening in your relationship is a microcosm of the larger whole. Same...
by Bella LaVey | Apr 29, 2020 | Ask Bella
Q: #DearBella, what’s your take on sleeping with friends? A: Dearest, I am all for it. But f*cking our friends is always dicey. Sex releases hormones like dopamine and oxytocin. These hormones are responsible for helping us to attach to others and fall in love....
