A Guide for the Sexually Curious Young Woman

A Guide for the Sexually Curious Young Woman

Times are changing. We are evolving. We don’t have to bumble our way through the first 10 or 20 years of relationship and wait until we are divorced and in a therapist’s office before we start to figure this shit out. It’s the 21st Century and there are new models for...

Cock Worship or Blowjob…What’s the Difference?

Cock Worship or Blowjob…What’s the Difference?

A blowjob is something you do for him — cock worship is something you do for YOU…and him, of course. Yes, it’s a gift and an offering but you do it because you love it and you need it. You do it because there's nothing you want more than to be showered in his...

Embracing Transitions

Embracing Transitions

Is it simply menopause, I ponder? Nah... what’s happening inside me isn't something to be mitigated or diagnosed. It's meant to be embraced. My instincts tell me to surrender and submerge myself in the experience, so I’ve swung open the door and welcomed this unusual...

Letting Go of the Legacy of Shame

Letting Go of the Legacy of Shame

I am a mother and grandmother, and in a few short hours, I will have a memoir hit the streets that details my journey through the worlds of stripping, sex work, and erotic wrestling. So very soon, those personal moments I have carried with me will become public. I’m...

Tips for Mindful Sex with Rumi

Tips for Mindful Sex with Rumi

Rumi would make a great sex coach.  Really! He's a star in the modern holistic community and rightly so.  Mystic and Sufi poet of Persian literature, Rumi describes love as a flame which, when it blazes up, burns away everything except the Everlasting Beloved. ...

Can I Get A Hug?

Can I Get A Hug?

Yesterday after a twenty minute pout, complete with exaggerated sighs and long faces, my boyfriend finally asked, "is something wrong?" Now, I, teacher of sacred touch, had to draw from every workshop I've ever attended to muster the courage to squeak out the words,...

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