by Bella LaVey | Feb 23, 2020 | Blog, devotion, Feminine, Interviews, Masculine, Relationships, Self Care
One of my relationship mantras is, “How can I love you better?” It’s something I ask myself and my partner. Long-term relationships are a dance; they require us to do our personal work and endure the hurricanes and tornadoes that we’d most likely detour in dating. In...
by Bella LaVey | Sep 30, 2019 | Blog, Feminine, Health, Self Care
Doctors are quick to push the pill as a panacea for everything from heavy periods to acne, and women disconnected from their bodies (and out of tune with nature) are quick to comply. But is there another way? Yes. It may take a little bit of time and research but I...
by Bella LaVey | Sep 30, 2019 | Blog, Feminine, Health, Self Care
The ubiquitous pill may seem innocuous, but is it really? With roughly 10 million women on birth control, shouldn’t we dig a little deeper? Sure, we all want the magic bullet. But life doesn’t work like that, princess; there’s no fairy dust, there’s no magic wand....
by Bella LaVey | Jul 23, 2019 | Attraction, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Intimacy, Masculine, Sexuality
Set your life on fire and seek those who will fan your flames. —Rumi In my first ever dominatrix session, which I detail in my book Fetish Girl, I learned valuable lessons on how to gracefully guide another into their fantasies. I didn’t come to these lessons...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 16, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Health, Intimacy, Self Care, Transitions
Something I’ve noticed is that when I forget my feminine practices, I am more easily pulled off my center. It’s essential to stay embodied and heart-connected to yourself—especially during times of stress and transition. Embrace it; breathe, and surrender to what is....
by Bella LaVey | Feb 13, 2019 | Biohacking, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Transitions
Is it simply menopause, I ponder? Nah… what’s happening inside me isn’t something to be mitigated or diagnosed. It’s meant to be embraced. My instincts tell me to surrender and submerge myself in the experience, so I’ve swung open the door and...