by Bella LaVey | Aug 29, 2019 | Advice, Blog, Sexuality
Our brain is built in layers, with the more complex mammalian layer on top of the simpler reptilian. All vertebrates have a reptilian brain. It is the most primitive part of the mind, governing our most basic instincts like self-preservation and reproduction. We...
by Bella LaVey | Aug 16, 2019 | Blog, Empowerment, Sexuality
Tantra is a lifestyle and spiritual path that celebrates and cultivates our creative, life-force energy, a.k.a. our sexual energy! The origins of Tantra are obscure but it’s undeniably the oldest known art of sacred sexuality practiced today. The word Tantra is...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 31, 2019 | Biohacking, Blog, Health, Intimacy, Performance, Relationships, Sexuality
If you thought sex was simply an adjunct to a good life, like the olive in the martini, think again. Sex is one of the five pillars to living in prime health and being on top of your game. It’s at the very center, right next to your physical, mental, emotional, and...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 23, 2019 | Attraction, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Intimacy, Masculine, Sexuality
Set your life on fire and seek those who will fan your flames.—Rumi In my first ever dominatrix session, which I detail in my book Fetish Girl, I learned valuable lessons on how to gracefully guide another into their fantasies. I didn’t come to these lessons...
by Bella LaVey | Jul 16, 2019 | Advice, Blog, Empowerment, Feminine, Health, Intimacy, Self Care, Transitions
Something I’ve noticed is that when I forget my feminine practices, I am more easily pulled off my center. It’s essential to stay embodied and heart-connected to yourself—especially during times of stress and transition. Embrace it; breathe, and surrender to what is....
by Bella LaVey | Jul 3, 2019 | Blog
Times are changing. We are evolving. We don’t have to bumble our way through the first 10 or 20 years of relationship and wait until we are divorced and in a therapist’s office before we start to figure this shit out. It’s the 21st Century and there are new models for...
