Letting Go of the Legacy of Shame

Letting Go of the Legacy of Shame

I am a mother and grandmother, and in a few short hours, I will have a memoir hit the streets that details my journey through the worlds of stripping, sex work, and erotic wrestling. So very soon, those personal moments I have carried with me will become public. I’m...
Tips for Mindful Sex with Rumi

Tips for Mindful Sex with Rumi

Rumi would make a great sex coach.  Really! He’s a star in the modern holistic community and rightly so.  Mystic and Sufi poet of Persian literature, Rumi describes love as a flame which, when it blazes up, burns away everything except the Everlasting Beloved. ...
Can I Get A Hug?

Can I Get A Hug?

Yesterday after a twenty minute pout, complete with exaggerated sighs and long faces, my boyfriend finally asked, “is something wrong?” Now, I, teacher of sacred touch, had to draw from every workshop I’ve ever attended to muster the courage to...