A blowjob is something you do for him — cock worship is something you do for YOU…and him, of course. Yes, it’s a gift and an offering but you do it because you love it and you need it. You do it because there’s nothing you want more than to be showered in his masculine essence.

Attitude is essential: The majority of blowjobs are obligatory, attached to an agenda; I do this for you and you do this for me. They are often given begrudgingly to simply appease. Cock worship is a spiritual practice; one that you’ll want to beg for on your knees. Absorbing his sexual essence for rejuvenation is one of the oldest, female sexual alchemy practices in the world that was honed to an art and science over 5000 years ago in China.

Don’t underestimate the power of cock worship. When you worship with sincere devotion, glee and openness you’ll find yourself tingling with the restorative energy of what is called replenishing the Yin with Yang.

Demeanor: Blowjobs are usually performed without a lot of forethought; they’re simply a short-lived sex act performed for the benefit of another. Cock worship is something you train for. Your demeanor is a combination of submissive, sexually hungry, and innocent with a smidgen of danger. Attempt to return to a state of adolescence when you worship. Imagine you are a teenager again and let the precocious, little girl in you play. Eye contact is important. Our spirits shine through our eyes so show him with your eyes just how much you yearn to please him and how grateful you are to have his joystick in your mouth. Be grateful for this opportunity to be in service. Say thank you!

God Consciousness: When in practice, see the man, or men (build up to this), you’re so fervently worshipping as God. How would you adore the lingham of the Lord if he incarnated before you? If you have an infinity for Jesus, Shiva or Pan imagine this archetypal masculine force of nature offering you his godstick and bring him to his knees. Worship with soul, pour yourself into your practice. Ooze love.

Technique: As with all spiritual practice—practice regularly. I never let more than a couple days pass. Skilled cock worshippers produce lots of saliva and have learned to open their throats. They enjoy gagging and work magic with their tongues. There are many ways to strengthen your tongue, but I suggest you just worship a lot and, in time, you’ll notice your tongue will become increasingly agile and dexterous. Continually expand your cock sucking repertoire and create your signature slurp. There is no end to learning, see your worship as an art form and your service to mankind as the most precious of gifts. Make sure you breathe in deep and steady breaths circulating his delicious masculine essence to every cell.

Combine hand and oral techniques and continually switch between the two. A skilled cock worshipper will be able to use both hands and her mouth simultaneously with all three doing something different. Remember—practice practice practice! Cock worship is both technical prowess and heart-center spiritual devotion.

Don’t exclude his dragon pearls (balls) in your worship. Worship the whole package; the shaft, the head and the balls. Some men love their balls gently tickled and sucked while other guys desire more intensity. Learn to read body language and ask, “how does this feel?” For a mind-bending worship session, stimulate his prostate gland. Again, some guys are just not down with this but, I reckon over 50% are secretly begging for it, so get the lube ready.

Swallow vs. Spread: Swallowing has its moments and all seasoned fellatrices have experienced swallowing as a profound finale. I reserve it as a special event. A healthy man’s ejaculate is a fabulous skin rejuvenator packed full of vitamins, minerals, proteins, enzymes and trace minerals. This should be something you crave. You’ll want to bath in the Holy Spunk Serum! Historically, this has been a past time of the aristocrats who followed the wisdom of the ancient courtesans. And I’m living proof after a lifetime of debauchery…my skin glows. So ladies, go ahead and smear his jade juice all over your face, neck and breasts and anywhere else for that matter. Please don’t waste the sacred sauce. For lasting benefits let it coagulate and have your guy read my upcoming blog on improving the taste and quality of his nectar.

Preparation: You never know when divine inspiration comes…so have a little cock worship kit handy. A little mirror to freshen your lipstick, natural baby wipes, coconut oil and a little rose water spritzer will help you feel ready at all times. Be smart and safe.

Happy Worshipping!

Love,

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Bella LaVey

Fetish Girl: A memoir of Sex, Domination and Motherhood