“Without love, our lives are empty.

—David  Deida

The Sexually Renovated Man

A One-of-a-kind, VIP Sex and Intimacy Training

Can you relate to the following?

  • You feel clumsy in the bedroom, or limited by your sexual repertoire
  • Sex with your partner become so rote, it’s dwindled down to almost non-existent.

Is love-making over before the sheets have warmed? Do you feel bewildered and betrayed by your body? Have you been to sex therapy with no luck? Does anxiety cause you to be excessively focused on your partner’s orgasm? Are you shy or unsure about initiating sex with a partner? 

I’m so glad you found me. We’re going to change all of that!

Sex, like any other physical activity, is a skill. Yes, we all have a biological urge to reproduce, but being a great (or even good) lover is not a proficiency you are born with. Deeply connected, fulfilling sex takes knowledge, mindfulness, and practice. 

The kind of love-making you see on film portraying perfectly-orchestrated sex that ends in a simultaneous orgasm is not the norm. 

Let’s get real: If you want to go from mediocre to mighty between the sheets you need training.

I’m here to help you become a badass in the bedroom.  

I also support men with premature ejaculation. The reasons for PE are complex. There’s no one cause, there’s no one treatment, and there’s no one cure. Approximately 3 in 10 men regularly experience PE; but it’s not the same for everyone.


My name is Bella LaVey and I’m a holistic sex coach with over 25 years of experience in the field of sexuality.

I have a deep love and compassion for men who strive to be the best at everything they do, yet were never given the tools and guidance to be masterful in the bedroom.


Sound like you? You’re in the right place.


Here’s How This Works…

  •  Your 9-month journey with me kicks off and ends with an in-person VIP weekend* (4 days total – valued at $15,000).

  •  2x 90-minute sessions a month in person or over Zoom

    *The VIP Austin weekend highlights are: Hands on ejaculatory mastery training, Tantric love-making tips, Taoist sexual rejuvenation exercises, how-to-wow-your-woman skills, partnered practices, and 3-4 hands-on table sessions. If desired, you are also welcome to take me out on 2 dining dates during our time together.


Investment to change your life: One payment of $25,000 or 3 payments of $8,600

Curious to see if we are a fit?

The Sexually Renovated Man is limited to 3 men a year. By application only.

Truly an earthly goddess like no other. Bella has shown, beyond a shadow of a doubt, why she is a tigress without peer. I had never met someone with such a presence. Equal parts beautiful, peaceful, intriguing, utterly terrifying, yet so exciting- it’s impossible to put our first meeting into words.

Bella’s patience, understanding, and assuredness shone as bright as the sun as she listened to and understood us on a level deeper than I could have ever expected.

Mike Kuehnle

Working with a coach is engaging in an alchemical process of creation. Together we unwind shame and limiting beliefs, and weave in the stories and desires that empower you to live a life of greatness.

© 2019 Copyright Bella LaVey.