“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”


Enlivened. Passionate. Vivacious

 The Liberated Couple Can be Spotted a Mile Away.

If your partnership needs liberated, it may look like this:

You love each other. You’re building a successful and stable life. From the outside, everything might look great. 

But the health of your relationship is in danger. And you recognize this.

Maybe there’s been an absence of communication, a slow build of buried hurts and resentment that follows you into the bedroom. Or you can’t remember the last time you experienced passionate intimacy.

You imagine how much better life could be with a fully connected, loving partnership. And you want this in your current partnership.

You’re ready to put in the work, together.

Because when your intimate relationship is healthy, this shines outwards into all aspects of your life. Your friendships improve. Your work becomes more enjoyable, you make more money. You radiate confidence and sex appeal.

Every partnership has the potential to harness sexual power and pleasure. And it’s natural that it takes work…


Returning to the Heart of the Dao Qigong.

(Sitting Practice)

Unfortunately, most of us were never properly educated on how to have a fulfilling sex life. Our sexual essence is often buried under layers of cultural beliefs, shame and confusion.

Don’t you dare feel an iota of shame about this.

You aren’t broken.
This isn’t a problem that needs to be fixed.
This is an exciting journey to your sexual liberation.

And I am your guide. 

My name is Bella LaVey and I’m a holistic sex coach with over 25 years of experience in the field of sexuality.

I’m on a mission to catapult my fellow sisters into having a more passionate connection to yourself and your sexuality than ever before.

Here’s what’s possible…

  • Feeling so connected to your erotic essence that you glow with radiance and magnetism.

  • Releasing all shame around your desires, body image, and any past traumas that have held you back from becoming the lover you’ve always dreamed of.

  • Rekindling passion with your partner – where you both can’t keep your hands off each other.

  • Understanding your own unique erotic signature, and how to tap into it to radically increase your desire for (and enjoyment of) sex.

  • Stepping into your sexual power in the bedroom – feeling confident, creative and connected to yourself and your lover.

I work with a limited number of women in a 3-6 month container

Ready to revolutionize your sex life?

My desire to recreate myself and branch out into uncharted territory led me to work with Bella. With her help, I’ve seen exponential growth as I reach for my highest potential. Her passion and drive have enabled me to excel in every area of my life; her intuition and support inspire me to reach higher to achieve my goals. She leads by example, drawing from her own experiences and expertise. With Bella as my muse and coach, I am no longer so afraid of the unknown.

Heidi C. Ellis

Working with a coach is engaging in an alchemical process of creation. Together we unwind shame and limiting beliefs, and weave in the stories and desires that empower you to live a life of greatness.

© 2019 Copyright Bella LaVey.