Dear Sacred Slut,

My sub really wants to take my cock completely down. She is able to control her gag reflex fairly well and can take me pretty deep. But there is still that last inch or so. Do you have any advice for opening your throat and taking that last bit?

Many Thanks,

JR

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Dear JR,

Thank you for your question. Oh, that delicious, last, long inch… yes!

Have you ever watched a sword swallower? The first trick is angle, position your sub so she can take your godstick down her esophagus without it hitting the back of her throat. Work up to it. Never go for it all at once. Make sure you have built up to full-on throat fucking with lots of long slurps. Don’t rush her. Give her mouth and throat ample time to relax into her mission. As she becomes more sexually aroused (give her ample foreplay) she will build more saliva and her body will naturally open. Praise her and let her know she’s your good little cock slut.

I always view throat fucking as a co-creative Divine act. She needs to feel adored to go for that last inch. Be patient with her as she learns to regulate her breathing and relax in her submission. As her Dominant, you’ll need to guide and train her. Coax her with a loving look in your eye, let her know just how much you appreciate her sacred service. Honor her as Goddess and be her God.

When she is swallowing almost all of you, make sure she is not in the middle of a gag and, go for that last inch by pressing her head into you. Give her a non-verbal safeword, like three consecutive taps on your thigh. Release her if she taps out. She more than likely only needs a moment to recover before she will greedily be diving in for more. Remember, angle is everything.

For her: Take some time to drop into your deep feminine essence before you go into scene. View the act as not just a blowjob, but worship. Imagine you are kneeling before God -because you are!  Continue to check in with yourself on your experiences. Always ask yourself does this serve me? You are sovereign in your submission. Be sure to read my upcoming post on Cock worship.

Love,

~ss
 
 
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